Singles - How to Find a Mate: Getting Yourself Ready

One of the main concerns that I hear from singles is the frustration that comes with finding a mate. One of the main questions that I hear from singles is, “Where do I find a mate?”

From my perspective the best thing you can do is to ready yourself. Ask yourself these questions:

• “What has happened in your past relationships?”

• “What could you have done differently in those relationships?”  

• “Were you the one doing all the work to make the relationship work?”  

• “What were the good things in those relationships?”

• “What were the bad things in those relationships?”  

Take time to think through these questions and then write out your answers. Now you have a place to start.